Orchid, when you think about it, there isn't more revealed in this thread than in any ordinary Oprah show or lady's magazine. I got to admit, I had to jump over my own inhibitions too, but we are cognito ...so who cares. I think humlan and a few other ladies here have a matter of fact natural attitude about sex. There is nothing wrong with that. I've learned a couple of things; … and that at my age!