Louisa...I hope you don't continue to feel guilty...we've all bought cigarettes who had a partner who smoked. I can remember when I was a kid buying cigarettes for my step-mom...I was only about 11 or so but she'd give me money and send me to the store. Of course today that could not happen. When a person wants to smoke they're going to find a way...I know...I've been there. You're hunan like the rest of us and even if you hadn't bought any cigarettes for your ex, he would have smoked anyway.

Optimum...I'm sorry I don't know any books or sites to guide you to concerning your situation. My sister swears by Yoga. I'm sure the ladies here will be able to guide you...I'm sorry. Good luck.

Hugs,

Dee
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Dee
"They will be able to say that she stood in the storm and when the wind did not blow her away....and surely it has not.....she adjusted her sails" - Elizabeth Edwards