Thank you both for the prayers and thoughts. I just came back from my first-in-10-years Al Anon meeting. Well, that was like a breath of fresh air. I think I can do this. It will take some practice to concern myself with myself but one of the points that was made (and I know I've read it but haven't probably practiced it) was that while I'm learning my life lessons (from the God of my choice... which is God) I do a disservice when I don't let others learn their own lessons in their own time and their own way. So as I go, I'm sure more will be revealed and I'll share along the way if anyone wants to know.

Still-A-Dreamr (thank God)
Kate