Kate
Please don't think I have any way of knowing if you are codependent or not. Or even that it is always a bad thing. Seems like it's hard to tel if you are codependent or loving.

I just thought of the book as I read your posts because I thought it might be a danger for you. I hope the book will give you the information you need to know what is best for YOU and to do what you have to care for both yourself and your family.

You will be in my prayers.
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