Sues, what makes me wonder here, is that you say she’s not horrible. That doesn’t mean she’s nice either, or that you really like her. If you can manage it financially, I recommend putting her into an assisted living facility.

I love my Mom more than I can say, but I would never ever want to live under one roof with her. You give up your privacy, your spontaneity and to a certain degree your freedom. Of course if you have no choice because of financial reasons then you have to make the best of it. But if you do have a choice, tell Hubby dear…no no no.