Here's a little update on my situation. My husband went into a rehab and was there for 11 or 12 days, which was all the insurance would pay for. They were satisfied that he had enough coping skills and moral support to go on and do well without long term care. He's home now and really trying to make up for lost time. He seems to have a new level of appreciation for life and for his family, and he can't understand how I can be such a good wife when he's fallen so short of being a good husband. I don't see it that way but it's interesting the way we see ourselves. He doesn't see that almost everything was good, it was just the drug thing that makes it bad. Take that away and we fall into normal mode, complete with dancing in the kitchen.
So it will be a complete family Thanksgiving. And for that, I am thankful.
Have a wonderful day Ladies.