DK, even though you can't fix your friend's child, just know you are working wonders for her by LISTENING.

Just getting things off her chest helps her tremendously. You see, she no longer has this as a secret. [Wink] I bet she isn't giving every one she runs into all the details she's given you. You are her blessing in the midst of her craziness. You listen and don't judge. [Wink]