DK, I know a couple situations where people are living with spouses who either have or are abusing illegal drugs.

Trust me, you are not alone. [Wink]

I'm sorry but I don't think any of them would be intersted in chatting about it. They are not where you are yet. Still in the protective stage. I say whatever works for you and your family.

As jawjaw mentioned, I think prayer is a great place to unload. God hears and loves you and wants to do whatever He can for you to make you whole and healthy with Him.