Agree Hannelore...but helping this 25-year old ADULT, can be done from a distance....in his own place. Help him with a budget, but don't GIVE him anything. That apparently is the problem now. Thus...the truck.

Picking a family member up when they are down is a strong believe of mine as well. But only.....only if they are helping themselves. I will not be an enabler. I love mine too much to help them be a user.