Thanks lionspaaw for the great advice. I think it is great that you offered to give help too.

Tanya, one thing that comes to mind is the whole hereditary component of alcoholism. I think it is important that you make sure your boyfriend is not drinking to cope with his mother's disease. I don't even know if he drinks, but if he does...make sure his drinking doesn't get out of control during this tough time in his life.

Keep filling us in if you want!