My boyfriends mother is an alcoholic and its starting to tear the family apart.They finally got her in AA but its only for a week.I dont think a week can possilbly fix it.I feel helpless when my boyfriend gets upset about it.I tell him you cant force her to stop she has to do it on her own.I guess shes been like this for a really long time.How can I help him and his family,what do I say???