The question that comes to my mind is, "why aren't you spending more time with us?" Give us 30 days, no, make it 2 weeks... come in, contribute, share, ask questions, make suggestions... I think you'll feel a difference.
Grab a chair and put your name on it.... I think you'll see and understand that some of the others of us are experiencing some of the same feelings (re: ladyjane's comments).