I had an update from the chief of police.
It seems that my sister in law has been leading us on and her MS has not affected her in the ways she said. The chief said that both of her legs and her arms were working fine as far as he could see and that she was "throwing things here and there like it was nothing." He said he has known her for a long time and has seen no change in her ability at all! He told us that "all of her apendages were working well," so far as he could see and he "was with her all day."

He said that her husband "lawyered up," as far as the computer on his phone but that they were now going to press criminal charges and send the phones away anyway. He said that before he called a lawyer he told them that he was downloading porn, and "mostly the father and daughter kind."

The chief said that since he got a lawyer the DA has decided to pursue pressing charges based on the phone and what it reveals, his confession and my SIL saying he did sleep in their daughter's bed. He told us that my SIL was "back peddling," and probably going to pay for his lawyer!

He told us that in his experience, he feels that the little girl was molested by him and he said he has a lot of experience. He said that he believed that my SIL knew about it but did not take part.

He told us to keep her "on our side," in talking to her like we are worried for her and care for her so that we may hear of anything else that may take place.

I cannot believe this is the position she is taking. I am amazed at her behavior! Her brother, my husband, is sickened by her behavior and doing everything he can to keep the DA going on this.

The Child protection report had not come in but they must have seen no immediate danger as they let the little girl come home. They did tell the chief that they would be making visits to the house to check on her without warning.

The chief was at the house today and said he found him drinking beer with a friend that has been in trouble with the law many times. He said that they were waiting to see if his truck moved to try to catch him driving so as to arrest him. His punishment for the DUI will be, the chief said, one year suspended license, a fine of 2,500.00 dollars, classes in alcohol and driving that cost 300.00 to attend and that all of this is mandatory sentencing, and everyone gets it.

The chief was very forth coming with us and asked us not to repeat what he said as it was now a criminal investagation and he should not be sharing. I think he felt better about sharing because of my husband's work. (DEA, Coast Guard, Border Patrol, etc...)

My other sister in law called my SIL and she would only tell her that she had a hard three days and her "right side was numb." She also told her that she "had to get her house clean and in order." We thought that was because of the visits that Child protection will make.

I can't believe my neice was left in that home knowing how my SIL back slid and knowing that the DA is pursueing sexual molestation charges against HIM.

He has now been accused by his sisters of molesting them, of molesting a daughter from another marriage and now this. Like the chief said, "Where there's smoke."

That is what I know so far. We are waiting for the findings of Child protection...

upset but hanging in,
dancer9