Dancer, What a difficult situation and so hard being so far away. Usually knowing her children are at risk will get an abused woman to leave, but not always. Oh, so hard.

Forgive? Perhaps someday, but it doesn't sound like you are anywhere ready to do it because it's good to keep focusing on helping the children.

JJ is right -- getting the guy for non-support is one way of going after him. And it sounds like the ex-wife is ready to press charges. Do you have access to her?
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Casey Dawes
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