Kate,
I've known folks that have dated after being widowed only 2 weeks. That seems to be the trend around here. I don't agree. But that's what they're doing. I've even known some that have gone on dates while their spouse was alive and in a nursing home. So I guess, your mom isn't quite that crude. I know! She's your mom! Most of us look at our folks' from a different perspective than what we view those to which we're not related. I suppose that's human nature! Good luck with your momma's, situation!
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