Oh yes, cherish him while you can. My Dad went so suddenly. Even though he was 82 with one leg amputated he was fine. I just had him out with me shopping a few days before he died.

Sounds funny due to his age, but he was doing great and showed no signs at all that this was going to happen.

I do feel comfortable with the fact that I did spend alot of time with him though, so no guilt.

I am going to have some guilt with my Mom if I don't let go of the anger I have towards her. My Dad's death has reminded me that she won't be around forever either. I have some work to do.
Kate