I have a question.

Do your kids visit YOU, as the mother, MORE than they visit their Dad and step mom?

DH has been sad about the fact that his daughter flew (alone, without the baby who is not 2 yet) to see her Mom but has never asked to visit here. Yes, I get along very well with her.

If they do visit you more, try to encourage them to visit their Dad just as much. Dad's, in a divorce situation, seem to be "forgotten".

I really feel for DH in this.

Also, if YOU had a step mom and step Dad, did YOU visit your Mom more?

Just looking to find out what might be the "protocol" in this.

Thanks!