A dear friend who was a nurse...we shared issues about a teacher(serious) we were sounding off about this witch.Long time ago now.
She wanted five minutes with her in a nursing situation .Witch in bed Norah the nurse.I asked what she would do.She said she would be as kind as she could be.I learned somethin that day.MY five minutes would have been unlike my dear Norahs.Alas I felt angry.

Sounds as if you are right .You know your son well.He was defending what he had done...OOPs.
well done you and hubby