Jabber, you are not a sap! Loss is loss and sometimes we never get over it, it may settle to the bottom of our emotions but is always there. I can smell a smell, or hear a song and begin to cry like a baby for losses of nearly 40 years ago... So I guess I fit into the SAP catagory as well.
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