You are assuming, just like we were assuming Princess. We don't have the details, and are just going on what Dianne gave us. We readily admit we are not qualified to say what to do, we're just giving opinions and discussing it. Not advice. Dianne is the expert here, trust me...we know this.

Some of us have never been around this type of behavior or experienced it. We are only answering the call for help...her question, how would you respond?.

Given the limited details, we're giving thoughts from the heart. Right or wrong? Only the outcome could tell that. I'm sure Dianne knows what she feels is the correct response, but maybe she just wanted more opinions on how a plea like this could be handled?