I have a new housemate. Got rid of the first one who turned out to be a perv. He wouldn't leave me alone and even said he thought I came with the rental....yeah, right..!

My new housemate practically cried with happiness at getting to rent from me. He is a scientist,chemist and has been living alone for several months. He loves his room, paid a month and half in advance, and just seems to be elated at the prospect of having a "family".

I don't trust anyone though at all until I know without a doubt they can be trusted, especially with the kids.

With him there my financial situation is looking better.

I need information however, do any of you know if I can get alimony? My ex who is the world's biggest skin flint, gets retirement from the post office and disability from the va. He is like 65% disabled, and is trying to get upgraded to 75% or more. He is hoping for a huge lump sum of money which he will promptly spend at the bar.

Do you think I am entitled to any of his retirement or va benefits?