Yes stick to my guns this time. I have done it before so I can do it again. I just felt that this last time after not letting him back for many months that he was serious about making a change. I was wrong.

He is 24 this year, time for me to stop kicking a dead horse as the saying goes, or my favorite:

Definition of Insanity:
"Keep doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results"

It is so painful when I don't help him, he calls me and cries begging for help and equally painful in a frustrating way when I do help him as he is basically scamming me.

I may have to go back to Alannon meetings again.
Kate