Kate, every time I see this topic I hold my breath waiting to see how you are doing. Damn it. I can't beleive this is happening. This so called friend makes me see red and I don't even know him.

There really is nothing you can do to keep a young adult son from going. It's not like you can tie him to the house. He's going to do what he wants.

And you are going to come here and we are going to support you and try to keep you from letting him back in. You know he has to hit rock bottom to turn his life around. It won't happen if you let him back and you know it.

Please try to stick to your guns and focus on your two younger children. Why not do a little something special with them this weekend to take your mind off your oldest. I'm sure thy're totally aware of what's going on and are probably disappointed too. Sending tight, warm hugs to you three.

I'm praying for your strength and peace of mind. Onward Kate...