Kate,
I hope you are continuing to get support from Nar-Anon, a counselor, pastor or someone. It's almost impossible to do alone.

Glad your ex- is stepping up to the plate! (yick -- I hate sports metaphores and use them all the time :-(( !)
Casey
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Casey Dawes
Wise Woman Shining
Supporting women business owners to step into their power as business leaders.