I recently read somewhere that women over 40 should not wear capri pants. I love my capri pants in the summer. I can't figure that one out. I have always been a conservative dresser, even when I was thinner and younger. I do love to shop, but I am hard on myself because I am not happy with my weight. Tomorrow I am starting a new workout program, so hopefully this will help. When I was ballroom dancing regularly, I bought some great clothes that are timeless. Now my goal is to get back into them. And shoes...I love shoes! I think if you like what you are wearing and feel good in your clothes it changes your attitude. It doesn't matter where you buy them, I love some of the things at Target, just as long as they fit well and feel good.