Its hard to keep your children from taking sides during these troubled times. My own sons wanted to ostracize their father/stepfather when we parted ways and I had a devil of a time not allowing that to happen. Before he passed away he was visiting both boy and they seemed to have made peace. He died suddenly and unexpecdedly and they had a clear conscience knowing they gave him respect no matter what they may have felt, of which I am glad.
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