I've considered divorce, but am working on building up our marriage again. If it is at all possible; it is the easier and better way for all.

Still, Dear Foundhervoice-atlast, I have copied and saved your post. I hope and pray I won't ever need it, but just in case;....I know it would help me in many ways.

You have chosen the best way for you, and how wonderful that you can look back and say it was the only way.