Perhaps you and he could make the rounds of the section of the hospital that houses young AIDS patients. Seeing what they can become is quite the eye opener....

I agree with Hannelore, wh's the adult here? Why are you afraid to take control? He won't hate you forever, just for awhile. Sounds to me like that girls mother would be glad to be rid of her and let her be someone else headache, like yours!! Don't wait mother, take charge.
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