re: addicted to porn
What do I advise my mother to do? Both her and my Dad are in their 80's and have not had sex since their 40's. What is a man to do if he doesn't have intimacy, is in a wheel chair and looks at porn out of curiosity, or because he can because of the Internet?

You would think at 80 there would be no interest but they are only 80 in mind, not body. I have advised my Mom to just ignore it as they are not intimate anyway. She has tried to catch him, sneaks up on him, checks what channel he was watching when he leaves the room.

My Mom is disgusted that my Dad is looking at this stuff. I don't really want to know about it either. Should I talk to him about it? He knows I know because my Mom has mentioned it in front of him. When she catches him she calls him a dirty old man and then won't talk to him for days.

I understand her being upset but he is not going to stop it so her nagging and name calling are getting her no where except stressed out. At this point they are not going to get divorced.
Any ideas?
Kate