Medtype1,
This is the same story we have heard so often here and my own sister suffered the same kind of insulting, degrading behavior from her ex, before he was her ex. I know from experience its sometimes very hard for many different reasons BUT kick that slime ball to the curb as soon as you can, and don't waste another minute on him. Find someone thats worthy of you.
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