Men outnumber women on bikes. Don't know why. But there are single guys who would like to share love of cycling with a woman-- amongst other things.
Can it test a relationship...well, if he or you (if you are more competent on bike) will wait for you to catch up or ride within your sightline from afar...that's a good start..

Seriously, some guys just don't care...and get upset if a gal beats them or they can't lead most of the time instead of woman on bike. Says volumes about the guy already.
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