Daisy, I'm sorry for your encounter with that donkey (I'm being nice). I dated a restaurant manager and he was two time me with another woman, his fiance, whom he married and then he cheated on her! That was 20 years ago. My sister's manager is of a similar nature. I wonder if this is a trend with male restaurant managers?!

However, I'm glad you checked those court records! I encourage all women to 'sniff' before stepping out with anyone these days.

Might there be a Christian singles group nearby? You don't have to date the group members, yet just hanging out in a group setting is 'safe'.