The problem is that so many 50+ men look for a partner who will be their "mommy" side kick (with whom they can have sex).

Men 50 and younger seem to have a more modern attitude (of course I know that there are exceptions to these) of treating women as real partners.

I think once a woman goes through menopause and has that major reorganization of her brain (I went through this) - you are not satisfied to be treated the "traditional" way anymore. Of course, I speak from my own experience - but not exclusively, as I have known many women who have felt the same way.