NL, why are you even posting a question like this here in a Boomer forum? Maybe you should search sadistic and masochistic forums to find your answer.

As for sticking my head in sand,…I rather do that then sticking it in smut.

I agree with JJ. You seem to be fixated on sex and write as if you were the only one who really enjoys it; categorizing others as lazy chocolate eaters who watch TV every night.

I’ve learned that those that toot their own horns constantly are the ones trying to fill a gap.