I threw out every negative "what if" I could think of. And I'm still running them through my head, just to keep myself convinced that I'm right.

There's not much "unsaid" on his part (he has no problem communicating and has brought up much food for thought), and I don't feel that I have/had the "upper hand" (only in that when I said no to continuing it there was no more discussion).

I did read an article recently that made me laugh. It was about younger men with older women. They enjoy the relationship until the older woman is gone, then they go out and find a younger woman to have a family with. That "is" the more traditional "older/younger" relationship. LOL.

And Dotsie, of course I've never met his mother. But I think she's an avid member of the "man of the month club" and is not very discriminating herself. So I doubt it would be an issue.

It's still fun to think about, even if it can't be.

Sigh...

Whirlwind