What a neat arrangement. I didn't realize you still had a child at home. This also gives you time to be with her before she goes away. I think it's great. I have been happily married for 28 years, but I have also noticed that I am much more comfortable spending time alone. It's good to have space in a marriage to do what you like without your spouse.

I have a friend who has a similar marraige arrangement. Her husband is a way a few days a week and it also seems to be working for them. I think it's best to set your own ideals within each marriage instead of going by what SHOULD be.
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