Our kids are 19 and 24. There is no curfew.

They know not to bang around and slam doors at 4 in the morning. Besides that we know that they've learned how to live for themselves and be responsible for their own comings and goings.

I think that it's unrealistic to set curfews for grown children. I know it's hard when you spent decades as The Mom looking out for your kids and making sure of where they were, and who they were with, and what they were doing, but that just isn't how it works anymore when they grown up. It's really really hard to do, but you've gotta let go of some of the mom stuff and let them be.

Atta girl Mom, it gets easier over time. You'll get more used it. You raised them well and they'll make good choices on their own.