Dianne and Casey, I wish I could find someone like that someday, but my recent ex and I couldn't discuss anything if and when we did have anything to talk about without arguing. He unfortunately isn't very intelligent and can't even carry his end of a good argument. He's like a caveman.

My husband who passed away was so wonderful. He was brilliant and sensitive. He was huge and quiet and kind. We went to art museums and wine tastings and to political functions and to the governor's home for dinner.

He loved to read and was soooo romantic. I miss him terribly. He loved my children as his own and my grandchilden called him "grampy John". I'm afraid I will never find anyone as wonderful as he was again.