It's his problem, not yours. If it were the other way around, would he help you? Doesn't sound like it to me. Don't waste your life on him. Why should this couple he lives with take care of his children? I didn't understand that. What were they doing while all this was going on. If I were them, I'd have thrown HIM out of my house. He's in someone else's home acting like this? You don't need this. I agree with the others. He's trying to control and manipulate you.