I might be wrong but it sounds like you are more concerned how your husband feels than the kids themselves. We do that as women. We try to control the outcome and emotions of others and it will drive us nuts. I believe that once we realize we can't do this, it becomes much easier because others are responsible for their feelings and emotions.

My grandkids can run me into the ground too!
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