Mitzkity,
EChick has offered some good advice here. I found that when I started working from home, I was the only one who thought of my work as WORK. Everyone else saw me as having free time; for them. I had to set groundrules because honey, our children look at us differently than anyone else. Mom, can you do this? Mom, can you go there for me? You're not working so can you . . .? Well no I can't and yes I am working. Once the lines were drawn, my sons and my daughter-in-law accepted them and we've had no problems since.

I also found out that the biggest problem AT FIRST, was ME. I couldn't tell them no. At least I thought I couldn't. Till I realized that my work was suffering. No work, no bacon. You know?

Set the boundaries. You will be doing everyone a favor.

And yes, you can be who you are here. Isn't that cool?