Where does one go to find an "Oprah bra"?

I just can't seem to find the right bra that doesn't give me "back fat". argh.

About padded bras. I'm a "D" cup. I think I was pretty shocked the first time I went bra shopping and stumbled upon heavily padded bras (I thought they should be labeled "false advertising". sorry ladies) lol

Any who, I've always wore thin under wire bras until week after week I saw a lady stand up in my networking group with her headlights FULL ON. (if you know what I mean).

We have a mixed group of men and women - when I'm talking, I don't want people to be noticing my nipples - I transitioned to a padded bra to help "dim my lights".

LOL

that's' my bra input, and I'm sticking to it.

danita