I agree with those who said that you and your husband need to plan a get-a-way, just the two of you.

Where would he enjoy going that would wake him up?

If possible, find a place without a television.

If money is an issue, see if you can borrow a friend or relative's cabin or home while they are away. House sit for someone.

New surroundings, even for a weekend, can sometimes improve a relationship.

Counceling would help if it's in your budget to do so.

I think you have too many years invested to throw it all away.

Think of the financial ramifications.

I ran across a website that talks about depression in Russia. You sound a little depressed. Even if you aren't it tells of services for marriage counceling.

Depression in Russia


I hope you find happiness in whatever you decide to do.