The feminine way is exactly what you described. Seperate and let them cool off. Not losing face - big with men.

On the other hand, maybe men cool off by punching each other? It is difficult to say, since we are all women here.

Working with youth for so long, I have always dealt with situations like this, exactly like you. For what it is worth - I would have done the same as you.
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