Sounds like your mom resents your being successful in life. It seems she is constantly trying to undermine you. She probably has very low self esteem.

Have you ever asked her to be perfectly honest with you and tell you why it seems she is resentful of you?

Its difficult to understand but we are to honor our parents in order to live long lives. I've mulled that around for years. I think that means that we have an obligation to respect their position as parents in our lives, the participants in our creation, but we don't have to like them.

Much like honoring the office of president as a citizen of our beloved US, but not necessarily liking or approving the office holder during their 4 years.
Does that make any sense?
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Aarikja Ann