There's a book called Taking Care of Your Parents when They Didn't Take Care of You. I've never read it. I've only heard about it. You may want to check it out on Amazon and see if it would help. The subtitle has something to do with making peace so it might not be the right book. Just a suggestion.

Your post is heartbreaking. You do not deserve to be treated like that. No one does.

What do you ladies think of writing a note to her parents to explain the hurt through the years? Would that be helpful?
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