I did email her to ask if she has anyone nearby whom she trusts, and I hope I did it in a way that won't add to her fear....It sure has added to mine! Thanks again, Bluebird. O geez, this is EXACTLY why I avoided this site in the first place, you just wait, she'll have no one and then I'll feel responsible to "adopt" her and........first thing you know, she'll tell me she's having siezures and then ....perish the thought!