Caringbridge is a tricky site to get into. Try this: http://www.caringbridge.org/cb/visitAPage.do and write garymatthies into the box provided. That should work.

Yes, Dotsie, I wrote the obituary...Gary had a delightful sense of humour and it seemed only fitting to inject a gentle reflection of that into his obit. Tomorrow should be an interesting mixture of tears and laughter, tears for missing him, but lots of laughter because some of the Gary-stories that we're going to hear are just downright hilarious.

Thank you for your continuing thoughts. I'm looking forward to Wednesday. I hope to be able to come and just be here (not in this thread, though) with my sisters and veg out for awhile.
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When you don't like a thing, change it.
If you can't change it, change the way you think about it.

(Maya Angelou)