I was where you were at one time in my life. The pain from divorce is inevitable but as the Word says, "this, too, shall pass" I spent way too much time and energy questioning all that he had done wrong to make the marriage fail--when I should've been focusing on me.

When I took a long hard look at me, God revealed things that weren't necessarily pretty but it allowed me to heal. I'm happy to say I'm now re-married again to a wonderful man--and it was all God's doing because he weeded out the garbage in my life and molded me to be the kind of woman a good man deserves.

These days i tell young women: Be careful what you pray for because you can do bad all by yourself!

At least your ex calls about the kids. My ex runs around town like he doesn't have a child and owes more than $50,000 in child support.

Peace & Blessings,
Beverly Mahone
Author, Whatever! A Baby Boomer's Journey Into Middle Age
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