As a divorce surviver, I agree with all the advice. You will be fine, but not today and maybe not tomorrow. For me, it was the loss of the dream. That is the part that still hurts. Not being a two parent family, the plan of retirement gone, watching my kids deal with their Dad. I divorced him, but my kids didn't... lots of emotions. However..I am free of him and that is the best. It is a journey....